1 – In verses 1-7, what examples are given which show David getting stronger? Does the Bible endorse polygamy? Why, or why not?
What example is given of Abner attempting to strengthen his position? What is the problem with his choice? Does Abner have a legitimate claim to rule? Why, or why not?
2 – In verses 8-19, why does Abner respond to being questioned with anger? What does he determine to do? Does he have the ability? The right?
Is he a "king maker?" Does he have the power to make David king over all Israel? What does Abner reveal that he has always known about David?
3 – In verses 20 and following, Why does David welcome and receive Abner when they are not friends, but enemies? Why does he send him home in peace? What has Abner done against David?
4 – How were we once enemies of the rightful king? Why? How has the king received and welcomed us? Why would this infuriate the enemy of our souls? What has happened to change our relationship to the king?